Submitted by brian on February 12, 2007 - 10:50pm.
The Power (and Peril) of Praising Your Kids -- New York Magazine
This is, for me, a stunning article. I have a hunch it will take me a while to really process it. See, the basic point of the article--supported in very powerful and conclusive fashion by repeated studies--is that it is worse, even destructive, to praise a child for his/her intelligence. Those who are praised for their effort learn to respond to failure by trying harder. Those who are praised for their intelligence are praised for something apparently beyond their control; I'm thinking it's like praising someone for the weather today. So when a child runs into failure, they believe they have no recourse. If all they have is their intelligence, and that's failed them, what can they do about it? Nothing, they think.